Equanimity
Category: Emotional Regulation & Mental Health
Tags: Stoicism, Resilience
Overview
Life is a roller coaster. Clinging to highs and fighting lows is exhausting.
Definition
Equanimity is mental stability. The 'eye of the storm'. Caring without being crushed.
The Science
Ventral Vagal Anchor
Staying safe/social even when stressed. Widening the window of tolerance.
The Practice
It's Like This
- Pause.
- Mantra: 'Right now, it's like this.'
- Find the center.
- Acceptance.
Common Pitfalls
- Spiritual bypassing.
- Indifference.
Key Takeaway
You can't stop the waves, but you can surf.