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Comparison Fatigue

Category: Digital Life & Technology
Tags: Social Media, Mental Health
  • Definition
  • The Science
  • The Practice
  • Common Pitfalls

Overview

You feel fine. Open Instagram. See a vacation. Feel inadequate. This is the crash.

Definition

Comparison Fatigue is exhaustion from measuring your 'behind-the-scenes' against others' 'highlight reels'.

The Science

Relative Deprivation

We judge success relatively. Upward comparisons trigger pain centers in the brain.

The Practice

Real vs. Reel

  1. Catch the thought.
  2. Reality check (it's curated).
  3. Mudita (Sympathetic Joy).
  4. Mute/Unfollow.

Common Pitfalls

  • Hate-watching.
  • The 'Inspiration' trap.

Key Takeaway

Don't compare your Chapter 1 to someone's Chapter 20.

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